Fall in love with the process of becoming your best self.
As a child, you grow up looking up to who ever that’s in your surroundings. Be it a happy strong home or a messed up situation, you grow up with the beliefs you are raised with. Only when you realize your true self, you discover that a whole lot of things that you thought are true or correct is complete BS. The sad reality is most people only discover their real selves only when they are older. Late 60s or even 80s. Blessed are those who discover their true selves at a younger age, Blessed are those who seek for knowledge outside their upbringing. Enlightenment comes to those who constantly seek.
I am sure what has lead you to this post is you are seeking to make yourself a better person right. I don’t to lie to you and say i got it all covered, but one thing i can tell you that has helped me survive and succeed all challenges, is my love of becoming the best version of myself each time. See as a child you are brought up being told to do this and do that, but still deep within you there is a voice that always tells you things. That little voice has always been with you since. That voice is your secret code to navigate in this life. That voice is your true self.
Once you know who you really are and stick to it, life as we know it becomes much more easier. It becomes effortless. Challenges do come all the time, they do so we can grow. Challenges are like levels that we have to complete in-order to get to the next level and so on until you reach your fullest level of success. Falling in love with your self is the first step. I mean this on a serious note. fall in love with your physical, fall in love with your mental, fall in love with your emotions. Know yourself so deep enough no one can do anything to you. All they can do is to stand and watch you, adore you because you would have found your light.
Once you know yourself well enough, the rest is easy. Well it actually is from your point of view. Legit. You discover some sort of magic. As you get better and better by the years on just knowing yourself, you will see the world evolving around you. Your days will become so effortless and more fulfilling. Self awareness and staying focused is the sweet spot to be at all times as you move around in your daily life. Thinks happen for you as you want them to. That’s the easy part i spoke about beginning of this paragraph.
Now i urge you to find your true self if you haven’t already. If you have continue to love that soul so deep. Nothing outside of you can make you feel or think otherwise about how you want to live your life.